I have been dating Armando for
X about of years. Reason I don't tell people any more is because I am constantly judged. Yes, judged because it has been longer than five months and we are not wed, due to Mormon standards.
Dear everybody who has a opinion about my relationship,
I am happy with Armando and where we are right now, not married! For some reason you think I am not happy or I am doing the wrong thing. I have some news for you today, I'm fine where I stand! Yes, the prophets have said we should wed early, but the prophets say not to drink caffeine drinks, so hopefully we don't. I am not making fun of their council, I actually don't know what I am trying to say but the fact is we are NOT getting married tomorrow and we are NOT bad people for doing so. We are okay with it, Armando isn't ready for
xyz reasons and I am not either. So are we wasn't our time?.............No.......... we are enjoying our time together because yes both of us do want to get married but its not our time yet. Please don't think its because of reasons you come up with your head. There are many legal, emotional, life choices we don't get married yet. We love each other and it's not as easy as saying let us get married. If you have a problem with it, I understand, actually I don't understand, I am not a bad person and either is he. I am women that makes smart choices, timely and right (most of the time) I don't want to RUSH.
Thank you for your concern, but please stop sugar coding your judgements. Okay, that was mean. I am a little fired up right now. I do love your advice, just know I think I know what I am doing and if I am wrong then I suppose Heavenly Father has a plan for me or else he would not be leading me down this path.
Love,
Candi
Trying to enjoy life, with someone I love dearly, the way I know how to do right now~